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  • 2025 Temperature Cross Stitch: August

    2025 Temperature Cross Stitch: August

    Okay, yes… this post is very late. Please do your best to ignore the little sneak peek of September’s cat in the photo and pretend to be surprised next month. Deal? 😄

    August brought a little bit of everything to my temperature cross stitch project. The month started off cooler than normal, heated up with a solid hot streak in the middle, and then eased back into cooler-than-usual temperatures by the end. The shifting weather definitely showed up in my stitches, with a mix of warmer shades surrounded by slightly softer tones.

    In Burke, the average daily temperatures ranged from 64.4ºF to 83.2ºF. It was still plenty warm, but nowhere near the steady, relentless heat of July, and the color variation this month really reflected that change.

    It’s wild how quickly this project is coming together, and even wilder that there are only a few cats left to go for the year.

  • Turns Out, I’m Into Documentaries Now?

    Turns Out, I’m Into Documentaries Now?

    There are a lot of things about 2025 that I couldn’t have predicted, but one thing I never saw coming is my newfound interest in documentaries. I mean, sure, I’ve dabbled in the past with Netflix docuseries like Cheer, Receiver, Quarterback and America’s Sweethearts. Taylor Swift’s Miss Americana is heavy rotation, naturally. I would even occasionally watch other streaming networks offerings on consideriably heavier topics like Hurricane Karina and 9/11. But, that was rare (because, hello, heavy topics) and usually aligned with an anniversary.

    Typically, when I’m unwinding in front of the TV (and it’s not football season), I’m reaching for some trashy reality show or rewatching a TV series I’ve seen a billion times. Lately, though, my TV viewing time looks a lot different.

    I can’t even pinpoint when the shift happened, but more and more, when I pick up the remote and scroll through streaming services, I’m skipping over movies and reality shows in favor of documentaries or docuseries. In the last month alone, I’ve watched more than I probably have in my entire life combined.

    Here’s a list of the ones I’ve watched in the last month or so (or what I can remember off the top of my head anyhow):

    • Trainwreck: The Astroworld Tragedy
    • Trainwreck: Balloon Boy
    • Trainwreck: Storm Area 51
    • Trainwreck: The Cult of American Apparel
    • Trainwreck: The Real Project X
    • Jeffrey Epstein: Filthy Rich
    • Oklahoma City Bombing: American Terror
    • Amy Bradley is Missing
    • Waco: American Apocalypse
    • FYRE: The Greatest Party That Never Happened
    • The Twister: Caught in the Storm
    • The Idaho College Murders
    • Hurricane Katrina: Race Against Time
    • Katrina Babies
    • Bad Influence: The Dark Side of Kidfluencing
    • Shiny Happy People
    • Closed for Storm
    • Honey Badgers: Masters of Mayhem
    • Glitter and Greed: The Lisa Frank Story

    I’m sure there are others I’ve forgotten, but each of these sticks out for a reason—good or bad. I’m not going to rate or rank them, though. That’s not what this post is about. But if you ever want my opinion on any of them, feel free to hit me up in the comments or on social media. I’m always happy to chat about the things and topics I get fixated on.

    I’m still not entirely sure why the sudden(ish) shift to documentaries, but I’ve been enjoying them. Though, I guess “enjoying” is a weird word to use with some of these topics, huh? You know what I mean. It’s been fascinating to learn about things I only had a passing familiarity with or absolutely no clue about. And hearing stories that never made it to the media about tragedies like 9/11 and Hurricane Katrina—some of which are downright rage-inducing—has been eye-opening.

    I couldn’t tell you how long this phase will last, but I’m always looking for recommendations. If you have any, leave them in the comments!

  • 2025 Temperature Cross Stitch: July

    2025 Temperature Cross Stitch: July

    I’ve been waiting for the oranges to take over my temperature cross stitch, and wow, July delivered. The month was full of heat, and my stitching reflects that. Every day fell into the orange range, and by the end of the month, the entire section was glowing in warm tones.

    Surprisingly, we never quite hit red, which in my chart represents an average daily temperature of 87ºF or higher. But that’s only because I’m tracking the average temperature, not the daily high. If I were going by highs, we would have been deep into the darkest reds for a good chunk of the month. If I do this project again next year, I might adjust the color ranges a bit on the upper side to better illustrate the hottest days.

    In Burke, the average daily temperatures in July ranged from 77.2ºF to 85.9ºF. So yes, very warm and very orange.

    I can’t believe how fast this project is flying by. Seven months down, five to go, and I’m already curious to see what kind of shift August brings.

  • 2025 Temperature Cross Stitch: June

    2025 Temperature Cross Stitch: June

    I’m a bit late to my June update because, well, life. But better late than never, no?

    June really turned up the heat on my temperature cross stitch project. After a cool start, the month warmed up significantly, and my palette definitely reflects it. This month featured mostly oranges, with a few yellows and greens thrown in for balance.

    In Burke, the average daily temperatures ranged from 58.9ºF to 89.1ºF, which meant I finally got to break into those warmer shades I’d been anticipating (even if I’m not a huge fan of the heat).

    Unfortunately, I don’t have a photo of the finished month because I forgot to take one, so you’ll have to settle for this late June progress shot. But it does include a special guest appearance from my own little kitty stitching buddy, Muffin, so I think that makes up for it.

    I can’t wait to see how July shapes up—something tells me there will be even more oranges (and maybe a few reds) ahead!

  • 2025 Temperature Cross Stitch: May

    2025 Temperature Cross Stitch: May

    My cross stitch temperature kitties are coming along swimmingly. I was expecting a lot more yellows, oranges, and maybe even a red or two in May, but the weather had other plans. The month ended up cooler than average, which kept the warmer shades mostly at bay.

    In Burke, the average daily temperatures ranged from 56.8ºF to 75.5ºF. So while we’re still seeing some greens and yellows, the full-on heat hasn’t shown up in my palette just yet.

    I really don’t mind though—this project continues to be such a joy to work on. It’s fun to watch the colors shift slowly and to see each little cat reflect the season in its own way. I’m looking forward to June and finally breaking into those brighter, hotter hues, even if I don’t actually love the heat myself.

  • I Will Not Yield to Disrespectful Men Cross Stitch Pattern

    I Will Not Yield to Disrespectful Men Cross Stitch Pattern

    “I will not yield to disrespectful men.”

    The moment I heard Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez speak those words during a committee hearing, they hit me hard. Yes, they were political, but they were also deeply personal. Because let’s be honest, most women have found themselves in situations—at work, in relationships, even just navigating everyday life—where they’ve had to swallow disrespect or choose to stand their ground.

    This quote wasn’t just powerful. It was familiar. It was a reminder that we don’t have to stay quiet. And for me, someone who turns to creativity as a form of expression and empowerment, the best way to honor that was to turn it into something lasting.

    So I created a cross stitch pattern. Simple, bold, and meaningful. And now, I’m proud to say it’s my very first digital pattern available in my Etsy shop. Whether you hang it above your desk or gift it to a friend who needs the reminder, I hope it empowers you like it did me.

    Check it out here: https://kimberlyfayecreates.etsy.com/listing/4307571783

  • 2025 Temperature Cross Stitch: April

    2025 Temperature Cross Stitch: April

    April brought another fun shift in my temperature cross stitch project, both in color and in vibes. With average daily temps ranging from 42.4ºF to 74.0ºF, we are definitely edging closer to true spring, and my stitching reflects it. This month’s cat features lots of greens and yellows, with just a touch of the deeper teals from March lingering at the beginning.

    The gradual warm-up meant a more consistent palette overall, and I loved seeing those sunny colors start to take over. It’s such a satisfying transition after the cooler tones of January through March.

    Four cats down, and I’m still completely in love with this project. Each little section feels like a snapshot of the season, and I can already see the full picture starting to take shape. I’m ready for May and maybe even a few oranges. (I say that now knowing full well I’ll be cursing the first super hot day.)

  • Book Review: Poets Square by Courtney Gustafson

    Book Review: Poets Square by Courtney Gustafson

    When Courtney Gustafson moved into a rental house in the Poets Square neighborhood of Tucson, Arizona, she didn’t know that the property came with thirty feral cats. Focused only on her own survival—in a new relationship, during a pandemic, with poor mental health and a job that didn’t pay enough—Courtney was reluctant to spend any of her own time or money caring for the wayward animals.

    But the cats—their pleading eyes, their ribs showing, the new kittens born in the driveway—didn’t give her a choice.

    She had no idea about the grief and hardship of animal rescue, the staggering size of the problem in neighborhoods across the country. And she couldn’t have imagined how that struggle—toward an ethics of care, of individuals trying their best amid spectacularly failing systems—would help pierce a personal darkness she’d wrestled with for much of her life. She also didn’t expect that the TikTok and Instagram accounts she created to share the quirky personalities of the wild but lovable cats, like Monkey, Goldie, Francois, and Sad Boy, would end up saving her home.

    Courtney writes toward a vision of connectedness—from the dark alleys where she feeds feral cats, from inside the tragically neglected homes where she climbs over piles of trash and occasionally animals, from her own driveway with the cats she loves and must sometimes let go. Compelling and tender, Poets Square is as much about cats as it is about the urgency of care, community, and a little bit of dumb hope.

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    I received a complimentary copy of this book for review consideration.
    This does not affect my opinion of the book or the content of my review.

    I can’t tell you exactly when I began following Poets Square Cats on social media, but I do know it was a post featuring Sad Boy and Lola that first caught my attention. How could it not? It didn’t take long for Poets Square Cats to become one of my favorite daily stops on my social media breaks. As I fell in love with all these cats I’d never meet, I also came to appreciate Courtney’s storytelling and the heart behind it.

    I’ve anxiously waited for this book since it was announced. I pre-ordered a print copy pretty much as soon as it was announced. I ate up every little tease Courtney posted. When I saw the book was available on NetGalley, I shot my shot for a review copy, even though I’ve not been the most consistent reader and reviewer lately. I was over the moon when I learned I was approved and I dove in that very night. I had no intention of reading it in one sitting. I planned to consume one or two essays at a time over several days. Well, that didn’t happen. I just couldn’t put it down. 

    Whether you’re a longtime follower of Poets Square Cats like myself or you just consider yourself a feline aficionado, this book should be on your TBR. Especially if you have an interest in rescue and TNR work and the people who care for community cats like Courtney does. Her writing is beautiful and thoughtful. I’ve always enjoyed her storytelling in video voiceovers and captions. This book took it to a whole new level. I especially love how she wove her story seamlessly with the story of the cats and humans she met along the way. 

    I have to admit, I was afraid the emotions that would come with this book might be overwhelming considering some of the cats who have been lost over the last year or so. Falling in love with cats on the internet isn’t for the weak at heart, y’all. But Courtney struck a perfect balance of emotions so it never weighed me down. Were there tears? Oh, absolutely. My emotions ran the full gamut. I also learned more about the history of the Poets Square house and its cats, as well as Courtney of course. I got angry on her behalf about some of the situations she had to deal with. The link between community cats and misogyny was particularly enlightening (and enraging, to be honest). But most of all, this book just made me thankful there are people like Courtney in this world, people who are strong enough to advocate for community cats and get them the care they need. 

  • New Blog, Who Dis?

    New Blog, Who Dis?

    Big changes are happening! My old blog was all about books (which I still love, obviously), but lately, I’ve been reading less and creating more: sewing, cross-stitching, running my Etsy shop, and just living life. So, it was time for a fresh start!

    This new space will be a better reflection of me: a mix of books, creativity, and everyday moments. You’ll still find bookish content, but now there’s room for sewing projects, cross-stitch updates, Etsy shop news, and whatever else sparks joy.

    It’s going to take a little time to move everything over from the old site, so thanks in advance for your patience while I get things settled.

    If you followed me for book recs, don’t worry—they’re not going anywhere! But if you’re also into crafting, small business life, or just a little bit of everything, I hope you’ll stick around.